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  • Writer: theoraclejourn
    theoraclejourn
  • May 10
  • 2 min read
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Text by Mandie Asejo | Graphics by Nikka Gutierrez | Layout by Joaquin Umali


โ€œPalitan mo muna ng pangalan, baka gumaling.โ€


Ever heard your grandma or aunty say this to someone in the family who keeps getting ill? In Filipino culture, itโ€™s also normal to rename a child, or give a new nickname believing it will ward off the sickness.


Is this magic real? Or is it just a myth dressed in love and tradition?


Well, hereโ€™s the truth, changing your name or nickname wonโ€™t cure a disease.


Thereโ€™s no science that says, โ€œRename the child and poof! the feverโ€™s gone.โ€


But, giving a name to your illness can actually help in a different, meaningful way. Not giving yourself a new nameโ€ฆ but giving your illness a name.


According to Health Psychology, when individuals label their chronic disease (such as referring to arthritis as โ€œThe Dragonโ€ or depression as โ€œThe Shitty Roommateโ€), they really do feel more in control. Why? Because all of a sudden, the disease is something distinct from you. Not you, but something you battle.


One person gave their pain the name โ€œBruno,โ€ another refers to their migraines as โ€œHalโ€ and states it becomes โ€œSuzanneโ€ when it intensifies. Imaginative, yes? But also healing.


But why?...


Because it puts emotional distance between you and the pain.


It reminds you, โ€œThis disease isnโ€™t me, itโ€™s just with me.โ€ It makes you laugh a little, even on the tough days. And it bonds you with others who are experiencing the same.


The old superstition claims that changing your name will cure illness. But this method claims that calling the illness by name makes you deal with it betterโ€”emotionally, not magically.


So no, your nickname isnโ€™t why youโ€™re ill. And renaming it wonโ€™t make the illness go away. But if you call your illness by name, and it makes you smile or fight harder? Thatโ€™s a victory.


Remember, myth says your illness is caused by your name is. FALSE. Well in real life, giving your illness a name can assist you emotionally cope with it, thatโ€™s TRUE!


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